Stop lying to yourself
And listen to what customers actually have to say
One of my biggest regrets from building Drivingforce (my last startup) is that I didn't truly listen to customers.
During Drivingforce, I was obsessed with the idea of building a verticalized HR platform for trucking companies because I saw the unique compliance challenges in trucking workforce management. I believed trucking companies deserved to have an HR system tailored to their needs.
I talked to many customers and "listened" to them. Many of them were lukewarm about discussing HR systems. However, I took this as a sign that I simply needed to find customers who cared about HR, which seemed like a reasonable approach at the time.
Nevertheless, I failed to listen to what else they were telling me. Many trucking company owners complained about the challenges of getting loads and managing customers. But since I was so fixated on trying to build an HR platform and afraid to pivot away from that idea, I didn't pay enough attention to the problems they were screaming in my face.
Ultimately, I lied to myself. I created a reality distortion field because I was so married to my idea and vision. I failed to listen to what customers were actually telling me. If I had done a better job listening to their demands, I wonder if Drivingforce's outcome would have been different.
For founders reading this, ask yourself: "Am I lying to myself? Is there something customers are telling me, but I'm not truly listening?"
Be honest.
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This is great advice. I'll add that part of listening is parsing the micro signals:
* how long do they take to respond to you?
* do they follow up?
We're human and words can easily mislead us. But actions don't and I've found it helpful to always watch for the above.